The Importance of Self-Compassion in Mental Health Recovery

Stephanie Strouth • October 26, 2025

Learn how self-compassion can transform your healing journey. Discover why being gentle with yourself is one of the most powerful tools for mental wellness.

Why We’re So Hard on Ourselves

For many people, self-criticism feels normal. You might say things to yourself you’d never say to anyone else — “I’m failing,” “I should be stronger,” “Why can’t I just be happy?”
But healing doesn’t happen through harshness. It happens through compassion.

At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we teach clients how to replace self-judgment with self-kindness — a proven method for improving emotional resilience and reducing anxiety and depression.

What Is Self-Compassion?

Self-compassion means treating yourself with the same patience, care, and understanding you’d offer to a loved one. It doesn’t mean ignoring responsibility or avoiding growth — it means accepting your humanity while continuing to heal and improve.

Dr. Kristin Neff, a leading researcher on self-compassion, identifies three components:

  1. Self-kindness — responding to mistakes with care, not judgment.
  2. Common humanity — recognizing that struggle is part of the human experience.
  3. Mindfulness — noticing emotions without overidentifying with them.

How Self-Compassion Affects Healing

When you respond to pain with empathy instead of criticism, your nervous system relaxes. This shift reduces shame, lowers cortisol levels, and helps your brain form healthier emotional patterns — creating a foundation for lasting growth.

Practical Ways to Cultivate Self-Compassion

  • Speak to yourself like you would to a friend.
  • Write affirmations that acknowledge your effort, not just outcomes.
  • Pause before reacting to mistakes — breathe, and remind yourself that imperfection is okay.
  • Practice mindfulness to observe your emotions rather than judge them.

Compassion doesn’t make you weak — it makes you whole.

At Anchoring Hope Counseling:

  • We Accept Most Insurances (Not Medicaid/Medicare)
  • Therapy & Mental Health Medication Management
  • 24/7 Access To Our Wellness App
  • Telehealth Option Available For VA Residents
  • Physical Locations in Abingdon, Wise, & Pennington Gap, VA

Call us for a free consult today: (276) 298-5034
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From Overwhelmed to Empowered, We’ll Help You Get There

You don’t have to navigate life’s chaos alone. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we guide individuals across Virginia, just like you, who are ready to stop surviving and start thriving. Whether you're seeking therapy, mental health medication, or simply a fresh start, we’re here to help you reconnect with your most authentic self and reclaim your peace of mind.


We Have Physical Locations in Abingdon, Pennington Gap, & Wise, Virginia.

You’re Not Alone, Let’s Start Healing, Together.

What If Peace Wasn’t Just Possible, But Within Reach?

When life feels chaotic or heavy, it’s easy to lose sight of who you are and what you need. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we meet you exactly where you are, without judgment, and help you reconnect with your strength, clarity, and self-worth.

Whether you're struggling with anxiety, trauma, relationships, or simply feeling stuck, we offer personalized care that empowers you to take control, feel grounded, and move forward with purpose.

You don’t have to do this alone. Let us walk beside you.

  • We Accept Most Insurances (Not Medicaid/Medicare)

    We accept Anthem, United/Optum, Cigna, and Aetna (plans through an employer, family member, or marketplace).  If you check your insurance portal to see if we accept your insurance, we may not show up on that directory. We do use insurance for individual sessions, but not for true couples/family therapy. If you wish to check your benefits prior to scheduling, you may complete a profile HERE. Call us at 276-298-5034 if you have additional questions. We also provide counseling at a private pay rate and can check your out-of-network benefits for policies we are not in network with. Unfortunately, Medicaid/Medicare does not have out-of-network benefits and will only pay for in-network providers. We are NOT in network with Medicaid/Medicare. 

  • 24/7 Support with Our Exclusive Mental Health App

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  • Comprehensive Care with On-Site & Virtual Medication Management

    Now offering psychiatric medication services through our compassionate board-certified PMHNP, available in-person in Abingdon and Wise, and by telehealth for clients across Virginia, including Pennington clients. Whether you're exploring treatment for anxiety, depression, ADHD, or trauma, you’ll receive personalized care that puts your voice first—never rushed, always respected.

  • A Truly Holistic Approach to Mental Health

    From Soundbed sessions and local wellness discounts to counseling, supervision, and engaging seminars, our services go beyond the norm. We care for the whole person, mind, body, and spirit, so you can experience lasting change, not just temporary relief.

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Exclusive Benefits for Your Holistic Well-Being

As part of our commitment to your overall well-being, we offer more than just counseling and medication management. Enjoy exclusive perks like free access to our Anchoring Hope app, discounts with our trusted partners, and savings on transformative Soundbed sessions. We believe in a holistic approach to care, ensuring that you receive a truly unique and enriching experience every step of the way.

Perks to Support Your Journey

We understand that true healing involves more than just the time spent in session. That's why we provide our clients with awesome extras designed to enhance your overall experience. From tools to manage everyday stress to special offers that promote relaxation and wellness, our perks are crafted to meet your unique needs. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we’re here to ensure that your path to well-being is as smooth and supportive as possible. With us, you have access to:


  • In-house mental health medication management services
  • Free access to our Anchoring Hope app for coping skills
  • Special discounts with our trusted partner companies
  • Savings on relaxing Soundbed sessions


Our perks are designed to complement your counseling journey, providing additional tools and resources to help you achieve lasting peace and balance.


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