How Therapy Helps You Break Free From Survival Mode

Stephanie Strouth • November 25, 2025

Survival mode keeps your mind and body on high alert. Learn how therapy helps you move from constant stress to emotional safety and balance.

Living in Survival Mode Is Exhausting

If you’ve been feeling tense, overwhelmed, or constantly “on alert,” you may be stuck in survival mode — the state your body enters when it feels stressed or unsafe.
Even after the stressful moments end, your body can stay in this heightened state for weeks, months, or even years.

People in survival mode often experience:

  • Feeling mentally “foggy”
  • Trouble relaxing
  • Emotional numbness or irritability
  • Difficulty sleeping
  • Always expecting something bad to happen
  • Feeling like you’re just trying to “get through the day”

This isn’t weakness — it’s your nervous system doing exactly what it was designed to do.

Why We Get Stuck in Survival Mode

Survival mode can be triggered by:

  • Trauma
  • Chronic stress
  • Ongoing life pressure
  • Emotional overload
  • Unresolved fear or grief

When your nervous system feels unsafe for too long, it forgets how to “turn off” the stress response.

How Therapy Helps You Transition Out of Survival Mode

Therapy helps retrain your nervous system to feel safe again.
At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we use grounding techniques, emotional processing, and healthy coping skills to help you:

  • Calm your internal alarm system
  • Identify and reduce triggers
  • Rebuild a sense of control
  • Shift from survival to stability
  • Experience rest without guilt
  • Reconnect with your emotions

You deserve a life where your body feels safe — not stuck.
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From Overwhelmed to Empowered, We’ll Help You Get There

You don’t have to navigate life’s chaos alone. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we guide individuals across Virginia, just like you, who are ready to stop surviving and start thriving. Whether you're seeking therapy, mental health medication, or simply a fresh start, we’re here to help you reconnect with your most authentic self and reclaim your peace of mind.


We Have Physical Locations in Abingdon, Pennington Gap, & Wise, Virginia.

You’re Not Alone, Let’s Start Healing, Together.

What If Peace Wasn’t Just Possible, But Within Reach?

When life feels chaotic or heavy, it’s easy to lose sight of who you are and what you need. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we meet you exactly where you are, without judgment, and help you reconnect with your strength, clarity, and self-worth.

Whether you're struggling with anxiety, trauma, relationships, or simply feeling stuck, we offer personalized care that empowers you to take control, feel grounded, and move forward with purpose.

You don’t have to do this alone. Let us walk beside you.

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    We accept Anthem, United/Optum, Cigna, and Aetna (plans through an employer, family member, or marketplace).  If you check your insurance portal to see if we accept your insurance, we may not show up on that directory. We do use insurance for individual sessions, but not for true couples/family therapy. If you wish to check your benefits prior to scheduling, you may complete a profile HERE. Call us at 276-298-5034 if you have additional questions. We also provide counseling at a private pay rate and can check your out-of-network benefits for policies we are not in network with. Unfortunately, Medicaid/Medicare does not have out-of-network benefits and will only pay for in-network providers. We are NOT in network with Medicaid/Medicare. 

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    Now offering psychiatric medication services through our compassionate board-certified PMHNP, available in-person in Abingdon and Wise, and by telehealth for clients across Virginia, including Pennington clients. Whether you're exploring treatment for anxiety, depression, ADHD, or trauma, you’ll receive personalized care that puts your voice first—never rushed, always respected.

  • A Truly Holistic Approach to Mental Health

    From Soundbed sessions and local wellness discounts to counseling, supervision, and engaging seminars, our services go beyond the norm. We care for the whole person, mind, body, and spirit, so you can experience lasting change, not just temporary relief.

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Exclusive Benefits for Your Holistic Well-Being

As part of our commitment to your overall well-being, we offer more than just counseling and medication management. Enjoy exclusive perks like free access to our Anchoring Hope app, discounts with our trusted partners, and savings on transformative Soundbed sessions. We believe in a holistic approach to care, ensuring that you receive a truly unique and enriching experience every step of the way.

Perks to Support Your Journey

We understand that true healing involves more than just the time spent in session. That's why we provide our clients with awesome extras designed to enhance your overall experience. From tools to manage everyday stress to special offers that promote relaxation and wellness, our perks are crafted to meet your unique needs. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we’re here to ensure that your path to well-being is as smooth and supportive as possible. With us, you have access to:


  • In-house mental health medication management services
  • Free access to our Anchoring Hope app for coping skills
  • Special discounts with our trusted partner companies
  • Savings on relaxing Soundbed sessions


Our perks are designed to complement your counseling journey, providing additional tools and resources to help you achieve lasting peace and balance.


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