Why You Feel Stuck Even When You Want Change

Stephanie Strouth • December 13, 2025

Feeling stuck doesn’t mean you lack motivation. Learn why emotional and nervous system factors can block change and how therapy helps restore movement.

Many people describe feeling stuck as one of the most frustrating emotional experiences. They want things to change. They think about change often. They may even know what they would like to be different, yet something internally feels frozen. This disconnect can lead to shame, self-criticism, and the belief that they are failing or lacking discipline.

Feeling stuck is rarely about motivation alone. It is often the result of emotional overload, fear, unresolved experiences, or a nervous system that has learned to prioritize safety over growth. When the mind perceives change as risky or overwhelming, it may slow or block action as a form of protection. This can happen even when the conscious desire for change is strong.

Therapy helps uncover what is truly keeping you stuck. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, therapists help clients explore internal conflicts, emotional blocks, fear responses, and learned patterns that interfere with forward movement. As these factors are addressed, people often find that motivation begins to return naturally, without forcing themselves or relying on constant self-pressure.

Change becomes possible when safety is restored. Therapy helps create that internal safety so movement forward feels manageable instead of threatening. Feeling stuck does not mean you are broken. It means something within you needs understanding, not criticism.
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From Overwhelmed to Empowered, We’ll Help You Get There

You don’t have to navigate life’s chaos alone. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we guide individuals across Virginia, just like you, who are ready to stop surviving and start thriving. Whether you're seeking therapy, mental health medication, or simply a fresh start, we’re here to help you reconnect with your most authentic self and reclaim your peace of mind.


We Have Physical Locations in Abingdon, Pennington Gap, & Wise, Virginia.

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When life feels chaotic or heavy, it’s easy to lose sight of who you are and what you need. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we meet you exactly where you are, without judgment, and help you reconnect with your strength, clarity, and self-worth.

Whether you're struggling with anxiety, trauma, relationships, or simply feeling stuck, we offer personalized care that empowers you to take control, feel grounded, and move forward with purpose.

You don’t have to do this alone. Let us walk beside you.

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    We accept Anthem, United/Optum, Cigna, and Aetna (plans through an employer, family member, or marketplace).  If you check your insurance portal to see if we accept your insurance, we may not show up on that directory. We do use insurance for individual sessions, but not for true couples/family therapy. If you wish to check your benefits prior to scheduling, you may complete a profile HERE. Call us at 276-298-5034 if you have additional questions. We also provide counseling at a private pay rate and can check your out-of-network benefits for policies we are not in network with. Unfortunately, Medicaid/Medicare does not have out-of-network benefits and will only pay for in-network providers. We are NOT in network with Medicaid/Medicare. 

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    Now offering psychiatric medication services through our compassionate board-certified PMHNP, available in-person in Abingdon and Wise, and by telehealth for clients across Virginia, including Pennington clients. Whether you're exploring treatment for anxiety, depression, ADHD, or trauma, you’ll receive personalized care that puts your voice first—never rushed, always respected.

  • A Truly Holistic Approach to Mental Health

    From Soundbed sessions and local wellness discounts to counseling, supervision, and engaging seminars, our services go beyond the norm. We care for the whole person, mind, body, and spirit, so you can experience lasting change, not just temporary relief.

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As part of our commitment to your overall well-being, we offer more than just counseling and medication management. Enjoy exclusive perks like free access to our Anchoring Hope app, discounts with our trusted partners, and savings on transformative Soundbed sessions. We believe in a holistic approach to care, ensuring that you receive a truly unique and enriching experience every step of the way.

Perks to Support Your Journey

We understand that true healing involves more than just the time spent in session. That's why we provide our clients with awesome extras designed to enhance your overall experience. From tools to manage everyday stress to special offers that promote relaxation and wellness, our perks are crafted to meet your unique needs. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we’re here to ensure that your path to well-being is as smooth and supportive as possible. With us, you have access to:


  • In-house mental health medication management services
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  • Special discounts with our trusted partner companies
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Our perks are designed to complement your counseling journey, providing additional tools and resources to help you achieve lasting peace and balance.


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