How Therapy Helps You Rebuild Trust in Yourself

Stephanie Strouth • December 14, 2025

Loss of self-trust can affect decisions, confidence, and emotional stability. Learn how therapy helps rebuild trust in yourself and your choices.

Many people struggle with trusting themselves, even if they appear capable and responsible to others. Self-doubt can show up as constant second-guessing, fear of making the wrong decision, reliance on external validation, or difficulty standing by personal choices. Over time, this lack of self-trust can create anxiety, emotional exhaustion, and a sense of disconnection from one’s own identity.

Self-trust is often disrupted by past experiences rather than personal failure. Repeated criticism, invalidation, trauma, or environments where mistakes felt unsafe can teach a person to doubt their own instincts. When this happens, people may look outward for reassurance while feeling increasingly unsure internally.

Therapy helps restore self-trust by exploring where doubt developed and how it continues to influence thoughts and behaviors. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, therapy focuses on strengthening self-awareness, emotional insight, and confidence in one’s internal signals. As clients learn to listen to themselves with compassion rather than judgment, trust gradually rebuilds.

Reconnecting with self-trust allows decisions to feel calmer, boundaries to feel clearer, and confidence to feel grounded rather than forced. When you trust yourself again, life becomes less about fear of getting it wrong and more about confidence in your ability to handle what comes next.
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From Overwhelmed to Empowered, We’ll Help You Get There

You don’t have to navigate life’s chaos alone. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we guide individuals across Virginia, just like you, who are ready to stop surviving and start thriving. Whether you're seeking therapy, mental health medication, or simply a fresh start, we’re here to help you reconnect with your most authentic self and reclaim your peace of mind.


We Have Physical Locations in Abingdon, Pennington Gap, & Wise, Virginia.

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What If Peace Wasn’t Just Possible, But Within Reach?

When life feels chaotic or heavy, it’s easy to lose sight of who you are and what you need. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we meet you exactly where you are, without judgment, and help you reconnect with your strength, clarity, and self-worth.

Whether you're struggling with anxiety, trauma, relationships, or simply feeling stuck, we offer personalized care that empowers you to take control, feel grounded, and move forward with purpose.

You don’t have to do this alone. Let us walk beside you.

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    We accept Anthem, United/Optum, Cigna, and Aetna (plans through an employer, family member, or marketplace).  If you check your insurance portal to see if we accept your insurance, we may not show up on that directory. We do use insurance for individual sessions, but not for true couples/family therapy. If you wish to check your benefits prior to scheduling, you may complete a profile HERE. Call us at 276-298-5034 if you have additional questions. We also provide counseling at a private pay rate and can check your out-of-network benefits for policies we are not in network with. Unfortunately, Medicaid/Medicare does not have out-of-network benefits and will only pay for in-network providers. We are NOT in network with Medicaid/Medicare. 

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    Now offering psychiatric medication services through our compassionate board-certified PMHNP, available in-person in Abingdon and Wise, and by telehealth for clients across Virginia, including Pennington clients. Whether you're exploring treatment for anxiety, depression, ADHD, or trauma, you’ll receive personalized care that puts your voice first—never rushed, always respected.

  • A Truly Holistic Approach to Mental Health

    From Soundbed sessions and local wellness discounts to counseling, supervision, and engaging seminars, our services go beyond the norm. We care for the whole person, mind, body, and spirit, so you can experience lasting change, not just temporary relief.

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As part of our commitment to your overall well-being, we offer more than just counseling and medication management. Enjoy exclusive perks like free access to our Anchoring Hope app, discounts with our trusted partners, and savings on transformative Soundbed sessions. We believe in a holistic approach to care, ensuring that you receive a truly unique and enriching experience every step of the way.

Perks to Support Your Journey

We understand that true healing involves more than just the time spent in session. That's why we provide our clients with awesome extras designed to enhance your overall experience. From tools to manage everyday stress to special offers that promote relaxation and wellness, our perks are crafted to meet your unique needs. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we’re here to ensure that your path to well-being is as smooth and supportive as possible. With us, you have access to:


  • In-house mental health medication management services
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  • Special discounts with our trusted partner companies
  • Savings on relaxing Soundbed sessions


Our perks are designed to complement your counseling journey, providing additional tools and resources to help you achieve lasting peace and balance.


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