Learning to Be Kind to Yourself After Hard Seasons

Stephanie Strouth • January 22, 2026
Many people are compassionate toward others but struggle to offer the same kindness to themselves. After going through difficult seasons of life, you might criticize yourself for not handling things better or for needing more time to recover than you expected. This inner harshness can slow healing and make emotional pain feel even heavier.

Self-criticism often develops as a learned way of coping. You may have grown up believing that being hard on yourself would make you stronger or more successful. In reality, constant self-judgment usually increases anxiety and makes it harder to move forward.

Therapy helps replace self-criticism with self-compassion. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, clients learn to recognize negative inner dialogue and practice responding to themselves with understanding rather than blame. Over time, many people discover that kindness toward themselves creates more growth and resilience than criticism ever did.

Healing from hard seasons takes patience. Learning to treat yourself gently is not indulgent or weak. It is an essential part of moving forward in a healthy and sustainable way.

Anchoring Hope Counseling accepts most insurances except Medicaid and Medicare and offers therapy as well as mental health medication management. Clients receive 24/7 access to our wellness app, telehealth options for residents across Virginia, and in-person services at our Abingdon, Wise, and Pennington Gap locations. To schedule a free consultation, call (276) 298-5034
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You don’t have to navigate life’s chaos alone. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we guide individuals across Virginia, just like you, who are ready to stop surviving and start thriving. Whether you're seeking therapy, mental health medication, or simply a fresh start, we’re here to help you reconnect with your most authentic self and reclaim your peace of mind.


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When life feels chaotic or heavy, it’s easy to lose sight of who you are and what you need. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we meet you exactly where you are, without judgment, and help you reconnect with your strength, clarity, and self-worth.

Whether you're struggling with anxiety, trauma, relationships, or simply feeling stuck, we offer personalized care that empowers you to take control, feel grounded, and move forward with purpose.

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  • We Accept Most Insurances (Not Medicaid/Medicare)

    We accept Anthem, United/Optum, Cigna, and Aetna (plans through an employer, family member, or marketplace).  If you check your insurance portal to see if we accept your insurance, we may not show up on that directory. We do use insurance for individual sessions, but not for true couples/family therapy. If you wish to check your benefits prior to scheduling, you may complete a profile HERE. Call us at 276-298-5034 if you have additional questions. We also provide counseling at a private pay rate and can check your out-of-network benefits for policies we are not in network with. Unfortunately, Medicaid/Medicare does not have out-of-network benefits and will only pay for in-network providers. We are NOT in network with Medicaid/Medicare. 

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    Now offering psychiatric medication services through our compassionate board-certified PMHNP, available in-person in Abingdon and Wise, and by telehealth for clients across Virginia, including Pennington clients. Whether you're exploring treatment for anxiety, depression, ADHD, or trauma, you’ll receive personalized care that puts your voice first—never rushed, always respected.

  • A Truly Holistic Approach to Mental Health

    From Soundbed sessions and local wellness discounts to counseling, supervision, and engaging seminars, our services go beyond the norm. We care for the whole person, mind, body, and spirit, so you can experience lasting change, not just temporary relief.

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As part of our commitment to your overall well-being, we offer more than just counseling and medication management. Enjoy exclusive perks like free access to our Anchoring Hope app, discounts with our trusted partners, and savings on transformative Soundbed sessions. We believe in a holistic approach to care, ensuring that you receive a truly unique and enriching experience every step of the way.

Perks to Support Your Journey

We understand that true healing involves more than just the time spent in session. That's why we provide our clients with awesome extras designed to enhance your overall experience. From tools to manage everyday stress to special offers that promote relaxation and wellness, our perks are crafted to meet your unique needs. At Anchoring Hope Counseling, we’re here to ensure that your path to well-being is as smooth and supportive as possible. With us, you have access to:


  • In-house mental health medication management services
  • Free access to our Anchoring Hope app for coping skills
  • Special discounts with our trusted partner companies
  • Savings on relaxing Soundbed sessions


Our perks are designed to complement your counseling journey, providing additional tools and resources to help you achieve lasting peace and balance.


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